Is sexual boredom the proverbial elephant in your bed? Routine, vanilla sex can become a BIG problem most couples just want to ignore. We all hope it will get better like it used to be. Great sex is extremely important in your relationship. With a bit of creativity, you can easily get the sizzle back in your love life.
So fire up your creative energy and sexual desire – choose to be a dragon in your pleasure den and chase boredom out of your bedroom. With some creativity techniques, you will discover how to heat up the passion and lust in your relationship and become a more exciting lover. You can satisfy the cravings of both you and your lover has for novel sexual thrills and erotic adventure. It is time to step out of your comfort zone to try something fresh and experience new tantalizing pleasures for both your mind and body.
It must be noted that great sex is not just physical. We all need to stimulate our emotions and our imagination. Everyone wants the thrill of doing something wild, naughty and new. Even if you think you have tried everything before, try them again but add a twist. For instance, the missionary position is an old favorite for most couples. It is intimate and comfortable in bed. Now try it on the front lawn in the morning dew – just a little more exciting.
Now to get your creative juices flowing so you can surprise your lover with novel bedroom ideas and reinvigorate your love life. One of the easiest ways to come up with something new and different is to randomly combine multiple ideas. Then see how you can make them work together. You will be amazed how your mind can take seemingly weird combinations and make sense of them. Even if the ideas appear totally unrelated, give it a chance and they will trigger new thoughts you can use.
Elements of great sex can be grouped into the following categories:
- Sensual Accessories: Various types of high quality sex toys, different styles of lingerie, food, flavored lubes, bondage equipment, etc. How many pleasuring accessories do you have in your drawer, closet or refrigerator?
- Settings & Themes: location, style, mood, fantasy and role play. Your sexual desire can range from a sensual massage one day to a wild quickie in an elevator the next. Will you make love in bed, on the kitchen table, on the stairs or the back seat of a car? Will she role play a maid, call girl or a dominatrix?
- Foreplay for Him: there are so many pleasure points to focus on besides the obvious one of course. How many male hot spots and stimulation techniques can you think of?
- Foreplay for Her: think of using your lips, tongue, fingers and other body parts to lovingly caress and sensually explore her body. How many of her erogenous zones have you pleasured recently? Are you missing or neglecting any?
- Sex Play Activities: sex play may involve multiple positions as you build arousal – it is more than just intercourse. There are so many imaginative positions and variations to experiment with. Manual and oral pleasuring also adds to the fun.
- The Climax: consider how you will finish your sex session. What position or activity will result in orgasm? Will you both drift off to sleep, wash up for work or try to rev up for more?
Alone or with your partner, create a list of ideas for each category. By mixing and matching an idea from each group together, you will have all the elements required for a night of frisky fun.
Although you most likely have a huge list of your own sexy ideas, sometimes you may want an extra source of inspiration. Books are one of the best sources for lovemaking ideas. The number and variety of erotic ideas people come up with are fantastic. There is something for everyone and every desire.
Once you come up with your lists of naughty ingredients for your erotic menu, randomly select a few and surprise your partner with the wild combinations of pleasure possibilities. It is really that easy. Sex does not have to be spontaneous. With planned random sex and a little imagination, you will enjoy more. Give it a whirl. Your sex life will never be the same again – it will be much more fun. Just remember to leave your lover satisfied and at the same time always wanting more.