As a man learning how to make love to a woman is one of the few essential skills that you should have. It’s a skill of pleasing your partner in bed that you should attain, whether you want to have long-lasting relationships or be able to have that freedom to hop from one bed to another.
But there is a difference between being good between the sheets and having the ability to give a woman an orgasm that she is not bound to forget anytime soon. So how can you graduate from having relatively good skills in bed to being able to give women a mind-blowing orgasm? The answer is simple: G-spot location.
Below are the top three mistakes that men make when brushing up their skills at G-spot location, and what can be done about it.
1) Thinking That The G-Spot Is Merely: A Myth, So what’s the number one mistake that men make when it comes to g-spot location? Basically, it’s thinking that there is no such thing as a G-spot. Sure, most sexologists do believe that the G-spot does not actually exist.
The G-spot was named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg who published studies in 1950, about “The Role of Urethra in Female Orgasm”. In his study, he indicated that there is such a thing as female ejaculation and that the urethral wall – which is now known as the G-spot – is an erogenous zone closest to the vaginal wall which is able to induce orgasms in women.
2) Thinking That The Only ‘Pleasure Button’ That Women Have Is The Clitoris: For most men, the clitoris or that bud which has a sole purpose of providing sexual pleasure is the only pleasure button that exists in a woman’s body. Again, it all boils down to believing that the G-spot does exist.
Technically, the G-spot is that area inside the vagina which is extremely sensitive to deep pressure. You can reach it using your fingers, your penis during penetration or with the help of quality sex toys such as luxury vibrators or Lelo vibrators. It can be stimulated through the anterior or front wall of the vagina, about five centimeters from the entrance. So if you still have this old-fashioned thinking that the clitoris is the only pleasure button that women have, think again. There is another area down there which you can turn into your ‘best friend’ and that is none other than the G-spot.
3) Going Straight For The ‘Grand Prize’: Just as it is with every other aspect of making love, locating the G-spot is something that you should not rush into. Don’t feel obligated to do the perfunctory kissing, petting and stroking her erogenous zones for a few minutes and then diving right in to clumsily find your way to the G-spot.
In conclusion G-spot location is an art that men should master. Try to steer clear of these above mentioned three mistakes about G-spot location and you can be on your way towards giving your partner in bed a mind-blowing, toe-curling, earth shattering orgasm.