How are you and your girl doing with getting your jollies off in the bedroom? Even if your sex life is red hot enough to melt all of the snow outside, chances are that your honey bunny won’t mind receiving a sexy little stocking stuffer this Christmas. You both fantasize about having a super hot sex life together well into the New Year, so sexy Christmas gifts for her are definitely in order! While some men are intimidated by the mere thought of her using luxury sex toys such as luxury vibrators, other men know that there is no way a B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend) or one of its orgasm-inducing cousins can replace the sexual intimacy and pleasure you find in each other during real, live intimate moments. Together, you can both reach heights unparalleled by incorporating toys into your love play.
Let’s be clear here – getting your significant other a sex toy for Christmas can either go really right… or really, really wrong. You know your woman better than anyone (or you should). Is she the sexually adventurous type? Does she appreciate a little bit of kink as long as it doesn’t go too far too the left (you just may freak her out by abruptly bringing in the whips and chains into your boudoir)? And now is not the time to bring up butt plugs to broach the idea of anal sex if you already know she squirms at the mere thought of it, or alternatively, if you’ve never even talked to her about it – don’t assume that she’s into it just because you are. You’re both adults – you should be able to discuss sexual fantasies and different toys and techniques you would like to try openly and honestly.
Also while we’re discussing how to choose sexy Christmas gifts she will enjoy, be aware of this truism: Chicks kinda dig ambiance. Consider setting the stage for a night of lovemaking by gifting her scented candles, massage oils, and other great tasting and smelling edibles. Get her something silky and slinky to slip into on Christmas night before you work your way to the main course. Again, now is not the time to push your own agenda or make her uncomfortable. Some soft, sexy lingerie might go over a lot better than the hard-core fetish wear…. unless you two are into that sort of thing, which then, all systems are a-go.
Now about getting down to business… If you’ve never gotten her high end sex toys before, a great idea to start off with is luxury Lelo vibrator. Why do women love vibrators so much? It may have a little something to do with all of the pleasure-inducing nerve endings in her clitoris. And you can share in the fun by getting one and experimenting with the vibrator with her. Flip the script and tell her tonight is going to be all about her pleasure. All she has to do is lay back and enjoy the ride. Have fun with it – find out which level of sensation she prefers – gentle teasing with feather light touches or as strong of a vibration as the sucker can handle. Find out if she likes her vibes with dual clitoris and G-spot sensation. Delight in the sexy sounds she makes in ecstasy as she nears orgasm. Then bring her in for the home run. Or better yet? Did you know that there are vibrators made to be worn during love play?
Ever heard of the Kama Sutra? You may not have invented all of these sex positions, but you sure might have some fun going through the book and choosing which ones you would like to try.