Sports to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Ladies, has your creativity in the bedroom gone south? Have you already danced for your significant other, added food to the bedroom, or played doctor/patient? Does your mate seem to be more interested in watching television than engaging in intimacy with you? Guess what ladies; your man is probably bored in the bedroom. He is probably highly interested in making love to you but tired of doing things the old way. If you are ready to bring the sexiness back into your bedroom, then I strongly recommend that you consider learning how to call sports plays in the bedroom.

 

Reasons to Learn Sports Plays

 

1) Your partner will never expect it: When you take time to sit down a watch a game with your man, start asking him questions about certain plays that are made. As he sees your desire to “learn” more about the game he loves, the more he feels like an expert. This is the beginning phase to foreplay.

 

2) Stimulate creative sex positions: Yes, ladies you can develop sexual positions in your bathroom while calling out plays. For example, if your mate likes doggie style, then jazz it up by playing center and quarterback. Rather than having both elbows on the bed, you may want to pass the “ball” (your favorite high end sex toys, luxury vibrators you find in your closet or wherever your creativity takes you) to him. This will help him to get into his role as being the anchor of the team.

 

3) Gives partner extra stamina: If you ask any man around you who loves sports, there is nothing like a woman who is able to get into sports more than her man. If woman is able to call plays and yell at the screen just as much as her man, it stimulates a man more. Why you might ask? Most women do not like watching sports for one reason or another. Now imagine calling out “par” in the bedroom. Your man will be so hot and bothered (especially if he is a golf fan) that even if he were tired he would find enough strength to do it again as he wants to be on top (he wants that eagle).

 

4) Connects you with your partner: Your partner would love for you to watch sports with him but knows that this may not be possible. However, if you are willing to add sports plays in the bedroom your mate will feel like he is connecting with you on another level. Just think ladies, how many women do you know that would add sports into the bedroom? I am sure you can count a few who would but most would not. You would be the “woman” to beat as yes ladies, men talk about their sex lives with their boys just as we do with our girls.

 

5) It’s fun: You can have a lot of fun with sports in the bedroom. It gives you new ways to let your partner know if he is in the correct position to have you experience an orgasm or let him know if he is not doing it right. It makes fun for new ways to communicate your sexual needs without boredom.

 

Ladies if you are ready to spice up your bedroom with some new tricks, you may want to consider adding sports plays to your repertoire. It’s fun, exciting, and will definitely please your man. So if you have never thought about sports in the bedroom and are ready to kick it up a notch, start calling out those plays. Your mate will thank you for it and you will enjoy it as well.

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Health Benefits of Masturbation for Women

Masturbation has all kinds of HEALTH BENEFITS. Just in case you need more convincing! Your clitoris was designed for your pleasure. It has no other functionality, ladies. It exists just to give you a climax. Use it!

 

  • It builds a woman’s resistance to yeast infections.

 

  • It reduces premenstrual cramps and reduces crabbiness, too.

 

  • Due to the additional blood flow to the pelvic region, it will reduce your chronic back pain NOT related to your cycle. Masturbation relieves back pain in general thanks to the extra blood it and orgasms bring to the pelvic region.

 

  • Builds and tones the pelvic floor muscles (the pc muscle) which improves partner sex! (Just like any muscle, the better toned it is the better its performance later.)

 

  • Not that women need this but masturbation increases our threshold for pain as well.

 

  • It’s a great stress reliever. It will make you a better Mommy, a better wife, a better employee, a better daughter and a better friend because your attitude will improve. Think endorphins here, ladies! Great tension reliever. (And all it takes is a good 20 minutes of alone time… it’s FREE and EASY.)

 

  • Everyone knows masturbation helps us all to sleep. Especially if we are all snuggled in our bed, in our jammies, with the lights low and with our favorite luxury vibrators near by!

 

  • Improves your self awareness and better understanding of our sexual response cycle. Helps you to understand what you need to achieve an orgasm.

 

  • This is THE safest sex out there. You will not give yourself an STD! You deserve PLEASURE.

 

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How To Avoid Mistakes That Cause Her to Be Bored With Sex?

What do you do when your sex life becomes boring? Does it occur that when you want to have sex, either she tells you she has a headache or she says she is very tired? When your love life gets stale, what should you do? If you truly value your relationship with your partner/lover, read on to avoid these lovemaking mistakes so that you can get her back sexually and give her what she wants.

 

(1) You look less confident and assertive

 

A man who is tentative or shy about what he wants in the bedroom can come across as less masculine in the eyes of the woman he is in bed with. Sometimes it is the desire to be good or nice in bed that actually causes a guy to be very average or below average in terms of what a woman really wants from her sexual partner. If you have been with a woman long enough to know her body language and emotions, nothing kills the mood like a formal request to proceed.

 

A good lover knows how to let her know he is in the mood and can turn her on without being too aggressive. Something as simple as an intense look or a playful touch is a much better way of going about it. You can also show some masculine strength and dominance in a gentle way. When going down on her, try holding her wrists. Put your hand on the center of her chest and hold her firmly down on the bed. Touch her like you own her. Do not be afraid to push her against the wall and kiss her deeply when you feel that she is being sexy.

 

(2) Trying to make love when she is tired or not in the mood

 

To get her back in the mood, pamper her with a massage. If you want to try something sexy, a foot massage with a warming gel can do wonders, especially if you concentrate on the pad of her toes and the webbing in between, which are linked to her nether zones. If she is relaxed, she is more likely to feel sexy.

 

Deep passionate kisses are one of the greatest ‘turn-ons’ for most women. Kissing is your entrance exam for the rest of her body. You look into her eyes and touch her face when you kiss her, which can really get her aroused. You spend time licking, kissing or gently nibbling her top lip and then do the same to the lower lip. Do give some attention on the area between her throat and chin. The skin will be thinner where the body flexes, so the nerves and blood vessels are close to the surface. Kissing her at this area will trigger an emotional response and make her wet. Slowly build up her arousal with your sensual kisses.

 

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(3) You are just plain lazy

 

You get too comfortable sticking with your usual ways of doing things. As a result of your obsession with orderliness, she can read you easily like the cover of a book, so much so that instead of moaning in bed she is yawning away.

 

To add fun to your love life, it helps that you need to ‘mess things’ up a bit, be less predictable, a bit naughty or cheeky at times to keep her wondering and at times make her can’t help giggling over your ‘performances’. Most women will not admit this but they prefer their men to misbehave a bit at times. This is why you hear about this saying about women falling for ‘bad guys’ and ‘nice guys’ are losers in their love lives. The key is to try to do new things in your love life that you both enjoy.

 

Being less predictable also needs you to do something extra to pleasantly surprise and please her at times. You will come across to her as a very caring and romantic lover. Surprise her with your thoughtfulness by making a bowl of popcorn when she is watching her favorite TV show. Write her a song, poem or love-you note to make her feel really special. Prepare a romantic dinner for two, play some mood music and seduce her.

 

(4) You neglect the emotional aspects of sex

 

You are superstitious (blind faith) that your sexual techniques can work miracles on her. You are proud of your over 6 inches long lovemaking tool down there, or if you are not, you look for ways and means to enlarge or lengthen it. In other words, you are too obsessed with the mechanical aspects of sex.

 

Just remember this – every man is the same when he is naked, but what differentiate you from other guys in her eyes is how you relate to her and how much you tune in to her emotional needs. To most women, sex without passion is quite dull and no woman wants to get this feeling that she is not being treated well.

 

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