Come-Worthy Kinks of Adult Toys Explained

The internet has opened our eyes to a lot of things that many of us had previously never thought of… and while sometimes the web leaves you desperate to UN-think something, it is quite easy to find intriguing ideas on the world-wide advertisement and porn hub. Today we hold the hands of beginners to the adult toy scene, explaining how some of the more unusual items can play a part in the daily life of your neighbor, your teacher, your grandparent or the man who ‘comes to clean ze pool’!

 

Anal beads

 

It’s impossible to imagine how you might effectively use anal beads for pleasure unless it’s been explained to you! People insert these luxury sex toys as part of play, then pull the string of beads out as they are nearing or having an orgasm. Anal beads work for both guys and girls, and most are tapered, so that beginners can start off by just inserting the smaller beads at the start of the ‘string’

 

Pussy flashlights

 

These incognito ‘pussy in a flashlight’ high end sex toys look funny at first glance… even to guys! However, they’re more than just a fancy sort of hand to masturbate with. They can be mounted on couches, beds, desks etc, can be very effectively lubed, and look/feel quite realistic. Most guys that try them are instant converts! There are mouth-style and anal-style flashlights to be found as well – they’re usually a good value standard masturbator for guys, rather like a dildo or vibe for chicks.

 

Clitoral pumps

 

Whatever you do, don’t watch a video of clitoral pumps being used before you actually try one! They help ‘pump up’ the clitoral area with blood, increasing surface area and sensitivity. Yes, they look hilarious. Yes, they feel amazing.

 

Double ended dildos

 

Why should one girl in a duo get all the fun? Double ended dildos are inserted with one end in one lady, and the other end in another. There is definitely an art to using them; double ended dildos don’t work as well for thrusting, but are fantastic for gentle bumping and grinding.

 

Nipple clamps and suckers

 

These two adult toy products are often lumped in together, but they are actually quite different. Nipple clamps create a tinge of pain that turns on more people than you might realize, especially if they are weighted. Nipple suckers, however, simulate the feeling of having your nipples sucked!

 

Strap-on dildos

 

These can be worn by either guys or girls, depending on their design. Guys might wear them for double penetration with a girl… girls might want to hit a female partner’s g-spot, or indulge anal fantasies with their boyfriend.

 

The world of high end sex toys is weird and wonderful… and all perfectly healthy, and yes, normal! Once your eyes have been opened, other parts of your body may follow…

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Overcome These Barriers To Sex

Ever wonder what “objections” she has to sex? Have you ever come across the situation that you can chat for hours, days and even weeks or months and still not end up under the blanket with each other?

 

There are 3 common obstacles women place between her and you. In this article, we will discuss all 3 of them and the easy ways to overcome them.

 

Number One Obstacle: She is not “turned on” enough

 

You will usually hear her saying things like:” I am tired, I better go home” or “Maybe we should slow down”.

 

If you slow down just another 10 minutes, you can get what you want. Because that is the only and easiest way to turn her on: Just go easy and take your own sweet time. Slowly build up the mood.

 

The only other rule about turning her on sexually is to be “smooth” which means building up the “heat” gradually when you get intimate with her. Do not go from touching her hand to tonguing her down.

 

Instead, touch her arm, touch her waist, touch her face, start kissing and then gradually get more and more intimate. In this way you are building up the sexual tension and slowly bringing her into the mood. By the time she is turned on, she will reach the point of no return and start begging for sex.

 

Number Two Obstacle: She does not feel comfortable at this place

 

Maybe she does not feel there is enough of privacy at her place. Maybe she does not like the feeling of having sex with you in a cheap hotel as if she is a whore. So, how about convincing her to have a tryst in the back seat of your car or in one of the compartments of those big circling wheel which you can find in a lot of theme parks?

 

A way to get over this obstacle is by means of a technique call “mind molding”. A well-known Brazilian soccer player, Ronaldinho uses this technique to help him score goals. Before the actual soccer match, he will “picture” himself about how he will go about trying to get the ball to the goal post and the joy he will get when he scores goal.

 

What you can do is to use a technique called “molding”. It is a sort of training the mind to “visualize” the things which you are aiming for to happen to cultivate positive thoughts in the mind.

 

Here are the easy steps:

 

  • Figure out how you want her to act. For example, you may want her to be an adventurous woman who lives in the moment.
  • Tell her a story about someone you admire who did something adventurous, or lived in the moment. Get her to “picture” herself doing something unusual and deriving greater satisfaction over this.
  • Tell her why you admire this person is because she is adventurous and live in the moment.

 

Gradually and with some encouragement, she will slowly evolve into the type of girl you want her to be. It is the same kind of psychology exercise; a great coach uses to motivate his players to perform their best.

 

Number Three Obstacle: She gets bored with sex

 

You are treating sex as if you are taking your car for a regular petrol/gasoline refill activity. You see her as if she is a car that you routinely schedule to drive to the petrol station for refill. Your sex with her becomes predictable closely following a time-table and repeating the same motion over and over again and gradually she becomes less enthusiastic in sex.

 

What can you do here is t break out of the usual “mold” of activity?

 

To break out of this rut, you have to be spontaneous. Make love with her at the time she least expects. If you regularly have sex at night, you can sometimes change this to morning or afternoon. You can also try out a new sex position or use quality sex toys such as Lelo vibrators. If you are not the aggressive guy when comes to sex, change your behavior. Take charge to seduce her, initiate foreplay, position her body in the way you like. If you are the aggressive type, you can turn her on by way of actions/talking and get her to take the initiative.

 

A more important thing to take note is that all forms of sexual stimulation start from the brain. If her overall feeling when she is with you is no good, all the stimulation will not work. At all times, you need to make her feel good and desirable. She is a human after all, not a sex object or sex machine that merely responds mechanically to your stimulus! Compliment her about looks, dressings, surprise her with small gifts, be romantic and at times arrange dates at her favorite restaurant or any activity she enjoys, relief her stress with some massage or doing some chores to lighten her burden and be just a quiet and attentive listener when she is down in her mood.

 

To recap on how to overcome the obstacles to sex:

 

  • You need to be patient to spend extra time to stimulate her.
  • Using mental tactics to cultivate as well as nurture and “shape” her thoughts.
  • Break your sex routine.

The Hottest P-Spot Toys Online

Maybe you’ve been getting to know your body a little better and are ready to move to the next level of pleasure. Of course prostate orgasms can be achieved with more than just your fingers; the help of a velvety smooth toy that shaped to fit the contours of your body might be the extra push you’ve been yearning for this entire time. Maybe you are new to this, and that’s okay. We’ll try to give you the pointers you need for buying that first p-spot toy. If you are a female reading this article, you’ll find great ideas for you and your partner to try. Enjoy.

 

There are many types of luxury sex toys you can purchase for the pleasure you seek. Whether you want to try anal beads or a p-spot toy to help you reach a prostate orgasm. Finding a local store might be okay, but if you want a bigger range in selection and the comfort of shopping privately in your own home, sex toys online stores offer you just that. Often you can find special deals and discounts, giving you the best price around. P-spot toys range anywhere from the price of $12.99 – 50.99 depending on what you expect to get out of your toy.

 

There will be many quality sex toys to try when you begin you search of that perfect p-spot. The differences are the most obvious of size, and type of material giving you a softer or hard textured used. The basic model of p-spot toy is one made of ridges that stimulate the anal area to send you into a prostate orgasm. If you are more experienced, and don’t mind spending a little extra cash you can get a really nice toy that is battery operated and sends perfect vibes straight to your sweet gland. Starting off small and working your way up is perfectly normal. Find the prostate toy that makes you feel comfortable.

 

My favorite p-spot toy is the Tantus P-spot Vibrating Dildo. Everything about this toy puts it on the top of my list. The sleek curvature of this luxury sex toy is angled with pleasure in mind. The shaft of the P-spot dildo has a unique asymmetrical shape for easy insertion and remove. We suggest using water-based anal lubricant with your luxury sex toys.

 

As you can see on sex toys online store there are many types of p-spot or prostate toys that will guide you to your first prostate orgasm. Just take your time and find one that fits all of your needs. Check for videos or other material on the internet that will help assist you if further guidance is needed. Your p-spot toys can be used alone for you to explore new sexuality, and when you are ready share them with a special partner too.

Why You Should Attend a Sex Toy Party?

Adult toys are usually things that are shared between two people who have feelings for each other. Though many may raise an eyelash when they hear such words, it is something that an adult can freely make use of, since it is not something illegal nor it is something unhealthy. In fact, a lot of studies have proven that such high quality sex toys can even have a dramatic effect on people’s health. This is because it enhances the sexual experience of an individual, which has a direct positive effect in that person’s overall health and well being. With this said, you should not miss out on another sex toy party that would be held near your place.

 

Keep in mind that high end sex toys parties offer a long range of items. Therefore, there is really a big chance that an item offered in such a party would spark you or your partner’s interest.

 

If you want to maintain or put back the spark in your relationship, you should attend at least one sex toy party before you decide whether it is for you or not. If your partner does not feel well in attending such kind of party, you should convince him or her to try even just for once. Remember that if it would be your first time to attend in such an event, then it would be something adventurous. Many people may hesitate to visit such kinds of parties because they would feel embarrass. However, many would attest that after they attend it they were not as embarrassed as they thought they would be, and to top it off, they even came home with an item or two.

 

It is perfectly understandable if your girlfriend does not want any part of buying sex toys online. However, such kinds of parties also offer alternatives such as body paints. Body paints is becoming one of the more popular alternatives to high quality sex toys nowadays, since they offer a wide array of flavors. Yes, it is true, these kinds of body paints are edible; therefore, you can make use of it, while you and your partner are doing the deed inside your bedroom. Just imagine, with body paint with your favorite flavor, it will definitely be a delectable way of exploring your girlfriends’ body in a new and unique way. Such an experience will spice up your love life and make you and your partner want some more.

 

Another set of items you can expect in a sex toy party is costume lingerie. For sure, your girlfriend will enjoy selecting through a wide selection of sexy costume lingerie which she can wear and tease you with later on. Though these items are not adult toys, they will definitely add more spark in your lovemaking.