1) For women, there are two ways of getting the most amazing of climaxes. You can either go for clitoral stimulation or the g spot one.
2) The g spot is an area located just behind the pubic bone. You will be able to access it better if you are coming from behind and from a higher position. You can stimulate it either with your fingers or go for penetrative intercourse.
3) Clitoral orgasms can be got by stimulating with the fingers. Most women agree that clitoral orgasms are sharper while g spot orgasms are deeper and more long lasting. You can even try the Kamasutra positions.
4) Ladies can try pleasuring her man in a number of ways. For instance, you can go for an erotic massage. Just concentrate on his pleasure spots to give him the most amazing climax ever.
5) There are a number of strokes you can try. Go for the anvil stole or even the milking one. You could also try the perpetual penetration technique. This is a massage where you clasp his member and stroke it down. You run your hands continuously after one another, thereby making him feel that he is going deeper and deeper. Try it out; it will make him feel helpless with pleasure.
6) The Kamasutra techniques are quite popular among couples. Some of the positions should be tried only if you are physically very fit. However, most of the positions are just artistic variations of things you already know.
7) The common Kamasutra positions include the Indrani, the lotus and the congress positions; try these if you are flexible and deep into a relationship.
Has your libido disappeared? Sexual desire loss can be a common complaint during menopause. Our hormones that trigger our sex drive to fertilize our ripe eggs are dwindling. We are moving from our role of birthing babies into the role of caretaker of all the children of the Universe. We are still very sexual, but only when we want to be. Now, we determine who, when, where, and what excites us and turns us on!
Research has shown that decreased libido is not caused by a drop in hormones alone. The relationship we have with self, life, and our sexual partner greatly impacts our libido. Our love of life, who we are, and what we are passionate about will ignite the fire within us. Being in a nurturing relationship where we are respected, appreciated, and adored for who we are is a vital piece to fire up sexual interest. Our decreasing sex hormones need our thought process to spark the flame. This is part of the menopause journey. It is time to redefine who we are as powerful, passionate women who can impact the quality of life for all humanity on this planet. We have played small for too long. It is time to re-prioritize our life. It is time to fall in love with all of life and to play big. When we embrace our feminine power, own our sexuality, trust our inner wisdom, see beauty in ourselves as older women, and love who we have become, our sexual juices will flow.
Our sexual energy is our life force energy. Often a fading sex drive is an indication that what we are doing with our life is not feeding our needs. A loss of sex drive is stagnant life force energy. Energy follows thought. What do you need to change in your life to be passionate about who you are and what you are doing with your life? Are you in a dead-end relationship? Do you see yourself as sexual? Do you have a purpose in life that is bigger than you are? Are you passionate about making a difference in the world? Do you love the woman you are? This is your time to follow your dreams, to speak your truth, and to use your life force energy to heal yourself and the world.
If you are in love with your life and you have supportive relationships and your libido has disappeared, have your hormones checked. According to Dr. Christiane Northrup, the hormones progesterone and/or estrogen, and testosterone in that order behind relationship issues with self and life can cause a decline in the sex drive.
Your sexual energy catalyzes your life and sparks all your engagements with self and others. This energy when run freely through the body increases your health and wellness, keeps you young and vibrant, gives you clarity of mind, and ignites your creativity. You need to make the time for what gives you pleasure. You need to celebrate the powerful, beautiful, wise, sexual woman you are! Your energy can change the world!
Self-pleasuring or mutual masturbation can be even more gratifying with the use of luxury sex toys such asluxury vibratorsand the dildo is one of such high end sex toys that really can make life more fun. There are quite a few different dildos on the market and it can be hard to figure out which one maybe the best for you.
It is with this in mind that a jelly rubber love aid could be the ideal fit for the first time user because they are affordable.
At the cheaper end of the market the jelly rubber dildo does come in a wide range of colors, shapes and sizes. They do have their fans who love the resilient bouncy feel to them.
The only real positive to jelly rubber love aid is that they are inexpensive to purchase. It means that they are then great for experimentation so that a woman can find out what she needs from a dildo regarding shape and size before purchasing an expensive dildo that isn’t right and obviously can’t be returned.
It must be noted that jelly sex toys being made from inferior quality means that some to contain phthalates which is a chemical that has been linked to health problems in other products and happenstances. It is with this in mind that it is recommended that you use a latex condom when using a rubber jelly dildo.
It is advisable not to use oil based lubricants when using rubber jelly dildos because this may well cause damage to the new sex toys. Instead it is better to use either a water or silicone based lubricant.
Dildos can really work to improve sex for the both couples in a relationship or just help the individual get the most from self pleasure.
Are you tired of having your lover fall asleep on top of you after sex? Then it’s time to introduce the best sexual positions into your love making and possibly even fire-up the intimacy between the sheets. Adding variety and aids like new sex toys or luxury vibrators in sexual positions with the woman on her back can potentially lead to the most amazing sex and bring you the most incredible orgasm, if you know how.
First, spice up the woman on her back position by participating in the pumping, the gyrating and all that coital hip movement that comes with this sexual position. Lift your hips and meet him thrust for thrust. Experiment with different angles in this sexual position. This will allow for variance in depth of penetration, intensifying the sex. To get the best out of this sexual position, raise your knees up, bracing your feet on the bed or ground or wherever you are lying down, gyrate your hips as you bring your lover towards the pinnacles of sexual pleasure.
One of the best sexual positions to try during love making is to open your legs wide lifting them up. Open your legs as wide as you can in a letter V-shape and you’ll see that this simple leg movement allows for even deeper penetration. The higher you can lift your legs up, the deeper your lover can penetrate you. For best results, embrace your lover with your legs or brace your feet on his butt and increasing the depth of his thrust.
The key to the best sexual position for the woman on her back is to prolong your orgasm by relaxing your vaginal muscles. Put your legs down alongside or underneath your lovers’. The shallower thrust with this position enables him to maintain a rock-hard erection and make the loving last for hours.
Most important of all, is to practice these sexual positions, it is essential to unlocking the secrets to sexual pleasure. By making your lovemaking technique supercharged, steamy and earth-shattering the last thing he’ll do is fall sleep!
The difference among an inexperienced and experienced lover is the methods that they use. The first step to make a woman horny is the approach that you will use to cause her to become excited. The way to affect, a woman’s arousal is a separate novel in its own right. Improper technique to arouse a woman includes hard touching, forced kissing, kinky objects and self-desires. These are excellent methods to use if you want to have lonely nights. There are men that continually use these methods on a nightly basis. So get over yourself and learn some new techniques.
To increase the arousal factor within a woman, try an emotional approach with gentle touches and kisses in the right areas. You can do this, kiss her on the neck and apply a bit of pressure with your hands on her thighs. Perform the grab as if it is a massage and whisper into her ears. The words you use are weapons and can determine victory or defeat. Kiss her from her throat to the tips of her feet and use your hands to caress in a gentle manner. You can use the tongue in several different areas to stimulate her excitement and interest; the lips can also bring about an effective stimulation.
Besides using your hands, you can create different sensation with accessories such as a single feather or any other items you can think of, or even high end sex toys like luxury vibrators.
These self Pleasure strategies center around the significance of utilizing your breath and guaranteeing you set up your body completely before masturbation.
On the off chance that you are experiencing issues peaking, a standout amongst other self delight tips, is to strip everything back and center around your relaxing. It’s imperative to recollect that in female self excitement, you really need to make your own foreplay in a manner to set up your body for sex. Furthermore, this starts with the right breathing strategies, trailed by light incitement to your bosoms, navel and inward thighs.
A decent method to do this is to start by lying on your back and start quieting and focusing yourself while shutting out the remainder of the world. Prior to you even begin to consider your masturbation strategy, begin to consider utilizing your breath and profound stomach relaxing. Profound stomach breathing is the place you gradually breath somewhere down in to your midsection and deliberately grow your rib confine outwards, rather than breathing here and there in a manner of speaking, you are centered around more profound breaths which go out and in.
The benefit of deep abdominal breathing and female self arousal is that all the extra oxygen not only calms and relaxes your body, the added oxygen increases circulation and blood flow to your body. When you focus breathing down deep in to your abdominal, it should start to send a pleasant tingle to your vagina.
Now is a good time to start slowly circling your breasts with your hands while you still continue with this measured breathing pattern. Tease your nipples and watch them become erect then move your hands slowly down to your naval and your inner thighs.
If you don’t become particularly wet, then by all means definitely use some lubricant as you begin to massage around your labia and clitoral hood. With your breathing try to focus on being in the moment and appreciate the pleasure you are feeling.
You can vary your movements from rubbing, to tapping or to circular. Make sure you include the opening of the vagina, whether your prefer to insert a finger or not, and even give some attention to your anal area. You don’t have to insert a finger in to you anus but you may benefit from apply light pressure in this area.
As the power fabricates, keep on applying a similar measure of weight that feels great to you. On the off chance that need be, you can change your situating, simply center around what feels great to you.
As you become increasingly stimulated you should be much progressively aware of your relaxing. A few ladies can will in general hold their breath at the pinnacle of delight which really restrains course and blood stream to your clitoris. So in the event that you believe you’re going to peak, deliberately utilize your breath (gasping) to help drive your climax.
These same self pleasure techniques can also be used with high quality sex toys or luxury vibrators. Although the sensations are usually more intense with the help of luxury sex toys, you can assist your climax with these breathing techniques.
Sex in an ordinary bedroom is a yawn. Sex in an erotic, exotic playroom is sexier than that recurring fantasy of your favorite celebrity walking into your bedroom just as you are reaching into the bedside drawer. Some essentials are:
Soundproof it for kids/roommates/your mother when she comes to stay: Heavy curtains and carpets soak up sound, and if you are deadly serious, install sound-insulating board on any adjoining walls. A lazy but effective option is to put in a sound system or radio. Music masks all sorts of sounds.
Get the lighting right. For the most flattering lighting, light from below or at eye level. Dimmers are the next best thing and can match whatever mood you are in. A simple, quick fix in the meantime is to put tea-lights on saucers on the floor, though it’s best to keep them a safe distance from bedcovers or enthusiastically thrown bras, panties or boxers.
Add a mirror. Mirror wardrobe doors can be angled to provide a good view of the bed, or use a full-length portable mirror which you can move into whatever position takes your fancy.
Add toys and essentials. Massage old, stockings, and scarves for tie-up, sleep masks from your last plane flight to act as a blindfold, lubricant, condoms, sexy clothes, luxury vibrators, and other quality sex toys.
Check your bed. A firm bed makes for better sex, and clean, fresh, good-quality sheets lure you to lie naked on them. Cushions are a must for putting under hips, supporting limbs, or making other places around the house sex-friendly.
The internet has opened our eyes to a lot of things that many of us had previously never thought of… and while sometimes the web leaves you desperate to UN-think something, it is quite easy to find intriguing ideas on the world-wide advertisement and porn hub. Today we hold the hands of beginners to the adult toy scene, explaining how some of the more unusual items can play a part in the daily life of your neighbor, your teacher, your grandparent or the man who ‘comes to clean ze pool’!
It’s impossible to imagine how you might effectively use anal beads for pleasure unless it’s been explained to you! People insert these luxury sex toys as part of play, then pull the string of beads out as they are nearing or having an orgasm. Anal beads work for both guys and girls, and most are tapered, so that beginners can start off by just inserting the smaller beads at the start of the ‘string’
These incognito ‘pussy in a flashlight’ high end sex toys look funny at first glance… even to guys! However, they’re more than just a fancy sort of hand to masturbate with. They can be mounted on couches, beds, desks etc, can be very effectively lubed, and look/feel quite realistic. Most guys that try them are instant converts! There are mouth-style and anal-style flashlights to be found as well – they’re usually a good value standard masturbator for guys, rather like a dildo or vibe for chicks.
Whatever you do, don’t watch a video of clitoral pumps being used before you actually try one! They help ‘pump up’ the clitoral area with blood, increasing surface area and sensitivity. Yes, they look hilarious. Yes, they feel amazing.
Double ended dildos
Why should one girl in a duo get all the fun? Double ended dildos are inserted with one end in one lady, and the other end in another. There is definitely an art to using them; double ended dildos don’t work as well for thrusting, but are fantastic for gentle bumping and grinding.
Nipple clamps and suckers
These two adult toy products are often lumped in together, but they are actually quite different. Nipple clamps create a tinge of pain that turns on more people than you might realize, especially if they are weighted. Nipple suckers, however, simulate the feeling of having your nipples sucked!
These can be worn by either guys or girls, depending on their design. Guys might wear them for double penetration with a girl… girls might want to hit a female partner’s g-spot, or indulge anal fantasies with their boyfriend.
The world of high end sex toys is weird and wonderful… and all perfectly healthy, and yes, normal! Once your eyes have been opened, other parts of your body may follow…
Ever wonder what “objections” she has to sex? Have you ever come across the situation that you can chat for hours, days and even weeks or months and still not end up under the blanket with each other?
There are 3 common obstacles women place between her and you. In this article, we will discuss all 3 of them and the easy ways to overcome them.
Number One Obstacle: She is not “turned on” enough
You will usually hear her saying things like:” I am tired, I better go home” or “Maybe we should slow down”.
If you slow down just another 10 minutes, you can get what you want. Because that is the only and easiest way to turn her on: Just go easy and take your own sweet time. Slowly build up the mood.
The only other rule about turning her on sexually is to be “smooth” which means building up the “heat” gradually when you get intimate with her. Do not go from touching her hand to tonguing her down.
Instead, touch her arm, touch her waist, touch her face, start kissing and then gradually get more and more intimate. In this way you are building up the sexual tension and slowly bringing her into the mood. By the time she is turned on, she will reach the point of no return and start begging for sex.
Number Two Obstacle: She does not feel comfortable at this place
Maybe she does not feel there is enough of privacy at her place. Maybe she does not like the feeling of having sex with you in a cheap hotel as if she is a whore. So, how about convincing her to have a tryst in the back seat of your car or in one of the compartments of those big circling wheel which you can find in a lot of theme parks?
A way to get over this obstacle is by means of a technique call “mind molding”. A well-known Brazilian soccer player, Ronaldinho uses this technique to help him score goals. Before the actual soccer match, he will “picture” himself about how he will go about trying to get the ball to the goal post and the joy he will get when he scores goal.
What you can do is to use a technique called “molding”. It is a sort of training the mind to “visualize” the things which you are aiming for to happen to cultivate positive thoughts in the mind.
Here are the easy steps:
Figure out how you want her to act. For example, you may want her to be an adventurous woman who lives in the moment.
Tell her a story about someone you admire who did something adventurous, or lived in the moment. Get her to “picture” herself doing something unusual and deriving greater satisfaction over this.
Tell her why you admire this person is because she is adventurous and live in the moment.
Gradually and with some encouragement, she will slowly evolve into the type of girl you want her to be. It is the same kind of psychology exercise; a great coach uses to motivate his players to perform their best.
Number Three Obstacle: She gets bored with sex
You are treating sex as if you are taking your car for a regular petrol/gasoline refill activity. You see her as if she is a car that you routinely schedule to drive to the petrol station for refill. Your sex with her becomes predictable closely following a time-table and repeating the same motion over and over again and gradually she becomes less enthusiastic in sex.
What can you do here is t break out of the usual “mold” of activity?
To break out of this rut, you have to be spontaneous. Make love with her at the time she least expects. If you regularly have sex at night, you can sometimes change this to morning or afternoon. You can also try out a new sex position or use quality sex toys such as Lelo vibrators. If you are not the aggressive guy when comes to sex, change your behavior. Take charge to seduce her, initiate foreplay, position her body in the way you like. If you are the aggressive type, you can turn her on by way of actions/talking and get her to take the initiative.
A more important thing to take note is that all forms of sexual stimulation start from the brain. If her overall feeling when she is with you is no good, all the stimulation will not work. At all times, you need to make her feel good and desirable. She is a human after all, not a sex object or sex machine that merely responds mechanically to your stimulus! Compliment her about looks, dressings, surprise her with small gifts, be romantic and at times arrange dates at her favorite restaurant or any activity she enjoys, relief her stress with some massage or doing some chores to lighten her burden and be just a quiet and attentive listener when she is down in her mood.
To recap on how to overcome the obstacles to sex:
You need to be patient to spend extra time to stimulate her.
Using mental tactics to cultivate as well as nurture and “shape” her thoughts.
Maybe you’ve been getting to know your body a little better and are ready to move to the next level of pleasure. Of course prostate orgasms can be achieved with more than just your fingers; the help of a velvety smooth toy that shaped to fit the contours of your body might be the extra push you’ve been yearning for this entire time. Maybe you are new to this, and that’s okay. We’ll try to give you the pointers you need for buying that first p-spot toy. If you are a female reading this article, you’ll find great ideas for you and your partner to try. Enjoy.
There are many types of luxury sex toys you can purchase for the pleasure you seek. Whether you want to try anal beads or a p-spot toy to help you reach a prostate orgasm. Finding a local store might be okay, but if you want a bigger range in selection and the comfort of shopping privately in your own home, sex toys online stores offer you just that. Often you can find special deals and discounts, giving you the best price around. P-spot toys range anywhere from the price of $12.99 – 50.99 depending on what you expect to get out of your toy.
There will be many quality sex toys to try when you begin you search of that perfect p-spot. The differences are the most obvious of size, and type of material giving you a softer or hard textured used. The basic model of p-spot toy is one made of ridges that stimulate the anal area to send you into a prostate orgasm. If you are more experienced, and don’t mind spending a little extra cash you can get a really nice toy that is battery operated and sends perfect vibes straight to your sweet gland. Starting off small and working your way up is perfectly normal. Find the prostate toy that makes you feel comfortable.
My favorite p-spot toy is the Tantus P-spot Vibrating Dildo. Everything about this toy puts it on the top of my list. The sleek curvature of this luxury sex toy is angled with pleasure in mind. The shaft of the P-spot dildo has a unique asymmetrical shape for easy insertion and remove. We suggest using water-based anal lubricant with your luxury sex toys.
As you can see on sex toys online store there are many types of p-spot or prostate toys that will guide you to your first prostate orgasm. Just take your time and find one that fits all of your needs. Check for videos or other material on the internet that will help assist you if further guidance is needed. Your p-spot toys can be used alone for you to explore new sexuality, and when you are ready share them with a special partner too.